I've decided at long last that by focusing too much on goals, or resolutions, you can actually achieve the opposite of what you are working towards. By thinking about losing weight all the time for example, you can feel more hungry. By thinking about financial goals you can lose sight of the enjoyment of the work you do day by day. So this year, at the start of a new decade, I have decided to live in the moment more and enjoy each day for its own sake rather than trying to predict, or control, the future. The only real constant in life is change so we should maybe relax a little and ride the wave instead of paddling frantically towards the place we are trying to reach.
It may be easier to adopt this philosophy when you reach a certain age and of course, I paddled as hard as anyone for years. I was brought up with the positive mental attitude, goal driven school of thought and I'm still not sure that a business, or a satisfying life, can be built without persistence and tunnel vision. I would certainly always advise young people to strive in all areas of their lives. In 2010 however, I am going to take time to enjoy the important things; family, friends, home, relaxation - everything else can take care of itself. Happy New Year.
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